For many people, December brings families together and is a season of celebration and warmth. But for thousands across the UK, the festive season is one of the most dangerous times of the year. Pressures around Christmas – including financial strain, increased alcohol consumption, intensified family tensions, and the feeling of being “trapped” indoors – can all cause domestic abuse to escalate behind closed doors.
At Astraea Linskills, we understand how complex, frightening and isolating this time of year can be for victims. Knowing where to turn can make all the difference.
The Reality of Domestic Abuse in the UK
Domestic abuse affects millions every year. According to the Office for National Statistics, an estimated 2.1 million people (1.4 million women and 751,000 men) experienced domestic abuse in England and Wales in the most recent year of data. Police recorded over 800,000 domestic-abuse-related crimes, meaning a domestic-abuse incident was logged roughly every 30 seconds.
Although domestic abuse happens all year round, support services consistently report a noticeable increase in demand in December and early January. Many victims feel they must “keep the peace” for the sake of children, extended family or financial stability. Others are cut off from workplaces, schools or friends – the environments where disclosure often happens.
These factors don’t directly cause abuse. But they do create conditions where abusers feel more in control and victims feel less able to seek help.
December Can Be a Turning Point – and Legal Support Matters
Leaving an abusive relationship or taking protective action is incredibly difficult at any time, and the emotional weight of Christmas can make victims doubt themselves even more.
Having specialist legal guidance can make the process clearer and help you understand the steps available to protect yourself and your children. Astraea Linskills provides calm, confidential and practical support, ensuring that you never feel you must face the situation alone.
Our team can assist with:
- Non-molestation orders to protect you from harassment, threats or violence
- Occupation orders determining who can remain in the family home
- Child arrangements where safety is a concern
- Urgent applications where immediate protection is needed
- Practical guidance on evidence, safety planning and next steps
Astraea Linskills offers a clear, tailored and compassionate approach that prioritises safeguarding and effective action. Our focus is on ensuring you feel supported, informed and protected throughout the process.
You Are Not Alone This Christmas
Christmas can amplify fear, shame and isolation – but it can also be the moment many victims reach out for the first time. No matter the season, help is available, and taking the first step is an act of strength, not weakness.
If you are experiencing domestic abuse or worried about someone who is, contact Astraea Linskills for confidential, compassionate advice. We are here to support you, help you understand your rights, and act quickly to secure protection when it’s needed most.
You deserve safety, stability and peace – not just in December, but all year round.
